You are a unique being and no longer fit within spiritual activities designed for all.

Dear Ones,

Many of you have mistaken our words. Believing you have to be different instead of looking within to determine how and why you are different.

Acting silly because it’s fun is different than being silly because you feel you must. Again, shoulds from your society or the Universes are not your path. Shoulds are no more.

Even though you have heard that last statement over and over, most of you applied it to your social milieu. Shoulds also apply to concepts many tout as Universal truths, including meditation, foods, and other forms of connecting with the Universes.

You do not require lessons or shoulds to connect with the Universes. In truth, you never did. But because your 3D fear society was so burdensome, many attempted to lighten that burden with techniques that could connect you to your higher self or the Universes. In fact, techniques that were likely valuable when you initiated your transition.

Those techniques are no longer valid. Just as Ouija boards were once popular, but are no more for the information obtained from Ouija boards is limited and burdensome.

The veils have lifted for you.

What feels comfortable? That is your only guide.

If someone tells you that you must do this to connect to the spiritual realms or yourself, please review that information within your being. If it feels exciting to do so, that is part of your new path. But if it does not, realize that such actions might be perfect for the person suggesting them, but not you. You are a unique being and no longer fit within spiritual activities designed for all.

If a friend or significant other pushes you to try this or that, you might feel guilty for not doing so or wishing to do so. Stop the guilt.

Again, if that spiritual action is appropriate for you, you will complete that action or at least complete as much as feels right. You are no longer part of the group process that was once 3D.

Many connecting with the spiritual realms tout this or that cure – an action that might work wonderfully for them, but not necessarily for you. Listen to your heart, your inner being before taking the time and perhaps financial resources to explore those options.

There is nothing wrong with providing spiritual guidance. The difficulty is when you return to the 3D belief that someone is more wise or skilled than you. Those skills you admire might be important for your role  – or not. Or skills you can obtain without their input. Maybe those skills are unnecessary flim-flam. Or skills necessary for your next step forward. Only you know – not your friends or family.

So do not feel the need to jump from this program to that or, more importantly, feel guilty that you do not. Perhaps those techniques will hinder your personal evolution – or not. Only you know. And the part of you that knows is within.

You no longer need to ask the Universes or humans if they think you need to do something. They are not you and never will be. You are you – with the most appropriate guidance within.

Perhaps you feel a need to pray to the Universes, humans, or others to assist you in a forward movement. That is far different than waiting until they approve for you to do so – forcing you to take this step or meditate in this way – before you are allowed to actualize your dream.

You are the CEO of you. Others can provide information and input, but you and only you make the final decision regarding the correct application of any information from humans, the Universes, or others.

You are you – not to be divided, reported, or directed by anyone but you. Allow that to be. And allow yourself to extinguish any guilt others might apply to encourage you to read this or do that if you wish to be a true earth angel. So be it. Amen. To receive Brenda’s Blog, subscribe via Or, click the Subscribe Button on the upper part of her “Blog & Subscribe” website page (, and click the – Subscribe to Brenda’s Blog by E-mail – line. Complete your subscription by entering your e-mail address and accepting the e-mail confirmation. 

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A little story about me -Nikos Akrivos-

A little story about me: when i was a child i wanted to become a dancer but since my grand ma was raising me up in Greece and both of my parents had to be abroad to earn a living we had only the necesary to live and could not afford to pay for classes. But in my mind i never stopped seeing myself dancing. I entered medical studies at University , studied for few years only to discover through a chaneller that my Angels had a message for me: Handicaps will dance with you! I quit my studies i didnt really know how to dance professionaly now at 25 and when i took decision i immediately attracted the best dance teachers who showed me.
I danced across the planet for 10 years and became a dj , a reiki therapist, life coach and meditation teacher for another 15 and today in my workshops people are experiencing deep transformation through dancing.
To be continued…

So, the next time you are in the middle of an intense situation, and you are feeling like lashing out in anger or reacting defensively, teach yourself to “Take Three”…to take a three second break in that moment… -Buddha-

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Message from Siddhartha Gautama Buddha

Through Losha


I am here. I have been here for a long time now. I have been studying from above just as I did when I was below, on Earth. I am pleased to be able to give my message through this one.

It has been many centuries since I was in physical form. Much that is both positive and negative in general has happened since my time. I have been observing all of the many varying “reactions” to the events that are a part of the 3rd dimensional life…and it is those reactions that I would like to address, at this time.

A reaction is a choice…many of you may not agree with that statement; however it is still the truth. Whenever an event in your life results in a specific outcome, it is at that moment that you have a choice as to how you will respond to that outcome.

You can just react right away, with anger, fear, etc, without giving it any thought…or you can pause for a moment and seek your “center” before you speak, or react…and your response will be much more neutral and with less uninhibited emotion. In most cases, when one is able to respond from their center, the situation will not be as charged with intense emotions, and will be able to be resolved in a clearer manner.

I understand that giving pause before you respond is most difficult to do…even I was challenged with that concept in the beginning. However, the rewards for seeking your center first are immense! Your days will be much more joyful and you will feel as if you are “in the moment” more…you will no longer be a slave to your emotions.

Now, of course it is easier to access your center more quickly if you are able to meditate regularly. However, formal meditation does not appeal to everyone, and I have learned that there are many ways to meditate…one can be in a meditative state while doing the gardening they are so passionate about, or when one goes for a walk in nature…this channeler likes to think of it as a form of “active” meditation…doing something that takes you to a higher, more spiritual state…and usually that happens when you are feeling passionate about whatever task thrills you the most…that is when you are in your center, your place that is your sacred space. It is from that space that you will be able to respond to situations from a more neutral perspective, and you will find yourself feeling as if you are “one” with everything!

The primary doctrine of what is called Buddhism is the concept of “non-attachment”…that is very similar to feeling neutral about things that are happening in your lives. If you are able to do that then you are “not attaching” your emotions toward that particular situation. Staying neutral also allows you to be more able to see both sides of the situation, which then allows for a more collaborative discussion instead of an argument.

So, the next time you are in the middle of an intense situation, and you are feeling like lashing out in anger or reacting defensively, teach yourself to “Take Three”…to take a three second break in that moment, so that you may try to respond less emotionally and in a more neutral manner. I would suggest you try to make those three seconds last for as long as you can…possibly by breathing deeply, to allow your emotions to calm down.

My channeler here is also trying to process what I am saying, and she knows she could also benefit greatly from the Take Three method. She is going to begin utilizing this approach and I am asking her to report back on what she learned from using it, in the near future, here.

My beloved friends, this journey of yours on Earth is a very challenging one…however, it can also reap great rewards for you if you learn to address your daily life and all its various experiences from your center…the center of your soul. Life is right in front of you for those who want to learn from it, and to continue to evolve themselves, and to also help others to find their center, along the way.

It was my pleasure to speak with you through this channel on this day. May your days be filled with Love.

Your Siddhartha Buddha.

Channeled by Losha.