even a person who has one relationship after another or one marriage after another can be seen as a failure in relationships by one person but another may look at that same person and think about how exciting that lifestyle must be.therefore we suggest that you broaden your definitions…See it as an accomplishment if all you are feeling right now is calm and peaceful, and see any amount of money that is flowing into your life right now as the definition of abundance.-Achieving Goals ∞The 9D Arcturian Council, Channeled by Daniel Scranton-